th3 90/10 pr1nc1pl3.....

What I am about to write is something useful that can be applied to your life.Read it,understand it and it will change your life(or at least,the way you react to situations)

What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you.Another 90% of life is decided by how you react....

What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.

Ex.
We cant stop the car from breaking down.
The plane will be late arriving,which throws our whole schedule off.
A driver may cut us off in the traffic.

We have really NO control over this 10%

BUT the other 90% is different.
YOU determine the other 90%

How?.... By your reaction.

You cant control a red light.
However you can control your reaction.

Do not let people foll you.
YOU can control how you react.

Let us use an example.....

You are having breakfast with you family.
Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee
Onto your business shirt.
You have no control over what has just happened.

What happens next
will be determined by how you react.

You curse.
You harshly scold your daughter for knocing the cup over.
She breaks down in tears.

After scolding her,you turn yo your wife
and you criticize her for placing the cup
too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows.

You storm upstairs and change your shirt.
Back downstairs,you find your daughter has been too busy crying
to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school.
She misses the bus.

You spouse must leave immediately for work.
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school.

Because you are late,
you drive 40 miles per hour
in a 30mph speed limit zone.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing
RM150 traffic fine away,you arrive at school.
Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.

After arriving at the office 20 minute late,
You realize you forgot your briefcase.
You day has started terrible.As it continues,it seems to get worse and worse.
You look forward to coming home.

When you arrive home,you find a small wedge
in your relationship with you wife and daughter.Why?

Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?

A)Did the coffee cause it?
B)Did your daughter cause it?
C)Did the policeman cause it?
D)Did you cause it?

The answer in "D"

You have no control over what happened with the coffee.

How you reacted in those 5 seconds
is what caused your bad day.Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you.
Your daughter is about to cry.

You gently say:
"It's okay,honey,you just need to be
More careful next time."

Grabbing a towel,you go upstairs and change your shirt.
You grab your briefcase,and you come back down in time to look through
the window and see your child getting on the bus.
She turns and waves.You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.

Notice the difference?

Two different scnarios.
Both started the same.
Both ended different.

Why?

Because of how you reacted.

You really have no contorl over 10%
of what happens in your life.

The other 90% determined by your reaction.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?

Do you lose your temper?
Pound on the sterring wheel?
Do you curse?Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
Who cares if you arrive 10 seconds later at work?
Why let the cars ruin your drive?

Remeber the 90/10 Principle
and dont worry about it.

You are told you lost your job.
Why lose sleep and get irritated?
It will work out.

Use you worrying energy and time
to find a a new job.

Millions of people are suffering
from undeserved stress,
trials,problems and headaches.

We all must understand and apply the 90/10 Principle.
It can change your life!

Absolutely everything we do,give,say,or even think,its like a Boomerang,
It will come back to us..If we want to recieve,we need to learn to give first...
Maybe we will end with our hands empty,
but our heart will be filled with love.....

And those who love life,have that feeling marked in their hearts.....
The End

st0p th@t!

Fuck,I had enough with you.Day by day you keep ask me to study,holiday also have to study.Not like I am some stupid fellow who constantly need to study to improve himself.If school day,you tell me to study,I will.But holiday?Come on!Like my whole classmates,I am the one who are forced to study during holiday.I really had enough.Study is a taboo for me during holiday.Mention it and you will expect to receive scolding.Damn it.Dont keep saying that this is for my future.I know what I am doing and I dont need you to tell me what should I do.Jesus Christ,why all my clever friends also faced the same problem like me ?I had enough.Holiday is my day,you have no right to decide what I should do.Darn it!I am really sick of it.Keep telling me that if I dont get scholarship,then I will go to Form 6.So?My life is for me to handle.I know how to manage my life.Form 6 or whatever,I will go through by myself.My future,I shape it myself,not you!So can you please stop bugging me bout all this study thing.Its making me crazy!Argggggg!Tell you,I just dont study during holiday and now,quit telling me to study!

t1tl3l3ss..........

As time passes by,our bond of friendship grows stronger and stronger.The fun we have is getting much more better.But at what price?Separation is the price we have to pay.Little do we know that in less than two years,all of us will go its own separate way.So at that time,do we still having fun like we used to be or we eventually become a total stranger towards each other?At that time,some of us will further our study at other country,while others work or study here.Sad to say,this is what will happen.And when this happened,we will contact each other less often and eventually we will not make any contact unless it is important.Only happy moments and pictures will accompany us during that moment.Yes,indeed it will be a sad moment.The more fun we had,the stronger the bond,the more sadness and tears will come in the end.Lets hope that this thing will not really happened to us because I believe my friends will not abandon me even if we are separated at other country or place.I hope...I hope so..........Treasure your friendship as it will be one of your most valuable asset in your life.Even if you make new friends,please dont forget you old friends as they been through everything with you more than your newly made friends.thats all.....

b1@s b1tch.......

I promised to my this Malay friend that I will never ever raise sensitive issue again.Sorry bro,there is just some fellow who like to make thing worse.Yes,I am referring you to bitch,My dear bitchie headmistress!All these while,I have been holding back,dont want to say anything again but your action forced me to do so.What have you done?Dont give me the fucking innocent look!Still blur?Do you know the preparation of Tang Lung festival?Surprise?Ya you should be.People have been preparing this for nearly a month and was going to finish preparing and then suddenly you appeared from nowhere and said this festival cant be continued.And the reason you gave was grouping are not allowed during H1N1 outbreak.Ya right,like your Muslim gathering at the surau is not considered a group activity.What kind of fuck fucking sickening accuse is this?Cant you think any better than this?Even a small kid can makes a lie better than you.Cant you see how fucking bias you are?All this while,I thought only this kind of thing will happen in politics,thanks to you,I know all these things happened because it was started from some stupid fellow's bias act just like you.Everybody say Malaysia will prosper at year 2020,I doubt that.We try to live in peace with you all but there is just some people like you refused to.Is this our fault?If this kind of bias act already happened in school level,how about national level?With your this kind of fucking rotten attitude,dont expect Malaysia to be united even after 100 years!Have you ever heard this malay idiom?'Kerana nila setitik,rosak susu sebelanga.'Just because some fucking fellow like you,those innocent fellows were dragged down.Ya I know,after you read my post,you will say you will find my parents,blah blah blah because you are GUILTY right?Kanine,this kind of action done by a weakling like you doesnt prove to be effective la.Ban festival?So what,I dont need this festival to be held in my school in order to succeed.If you want to punish me,I just got 14 words for you,you are just a FUCK FUCKING LOOKING FUCKER WITH A FUCKING USELESS PUSSY AND BRAIN!!If you cant even differentiate between private matter and school matter,I suggest you retired and go back rear your pig!

People like you dont deserved my respect.Looking at your face make me puke.I rather spit on your than respect you.Pui!Before I end this,I have something to show you.Enjoy it.

NAH! o0o x1

NAH! o0o x2

NAH! o0o x3

If you want more,its my honour to do it for you.Cant understand what I am saying all these while?Oops sorry,I dont know that you cant read English.Maybe you can ask your fucking filial son to help you translate it.Worse come to worse,you come and find me to help you translate ba =.= Everybody,follow me,NAHo0o,NAHo0o,NAHo0o!and lastly KAPUI!
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And if somehow you managed to read and understand my blog,please dont go and find trouble with the teachers because they have nothing to do with it and you surely derserved it.Even if anger take over you and you decided to punish me,take a look of yourself in the mirror before you punish me and think why I scolded you.I scolded you because you are wrong,not because it is fun.Wrong is wrong .You cant change it even if you are the GOD.

g1rl p0w3r........

**Disclaimer: There is some bad language in this post. Why? Because it's about FPSes. And for some reason, lots of people get butt hurt when they are shot. In a First Person SHOOTER. Go figure.**

I was playing a little COD4 the other day on Vacant when all a sudden some heated bitching about a noobtuber scrolls up on my screen:

"You fuckin' noobtubing pussy."

To those familiar with FPSes, pillow talk like that is pretty normal and actually, pretty tame faire, especially for the COD4 crowd. But for those of you who prefer MMOs and aren't familiar with FPS terminology, a noobtube is usually an over powered but easily accessible weapon that takes little to no skill to use (for example, a rocket launcher or grenade launcher with sexy splash damage that you kinda' sorta' mabbe' aim in a general direction and rack up kills with.)

I don't think much about it, since I've heard much better and much more original insults with that one, usually involving someone's mother, a donkey and some cheese.

"You can't aim so you gotta' fuckin' use the noobtube, you fuckin' noob?"

I check the score. The noobtuber's only rank 14/55. He probably hasn't been playing very long, and when you start, you pretty much got the noobtube and nothing else perk wise.

I continue playing, hear some more bitching and drop an Airstrike on B since lots of idiots like to hide there in them weeds. Score! Here comes my Chopper.

And then, something that catches my attention.

"You play like a fuckin' girl."

Whoa whoa whoa whoa.

I check the leader boards.

I'm second. Where are they? Ohhh, both somewhere on the bottom on a 32 man server.

And oddly enough, I get ticked. Ticked enough to speak out.

At the end of the game I type, "You just lost to a "shitty" girl, moron."

(I know I know, not the wittiest come back, but you don't have a lot of time to type between rounds!)

* * *

Some believe that women gamers simply don't exist, a myth like the mighty Chupacabra. But in truth, WE ARE OUT THERE--we're simply stealthy and elusive. Like a Ninja (or should I say Kunoichi), or better yet, the magnificent Jackalope.

You see, the majority of competent female players tend to keep quiet, going about our business whether it be topping the DPS charts, dropping air strikes on vital choke points or "melting your face" without ramming our gender down your throat. We are "gamers" just like anyone else as opposed to "ZOMGZ TEE HEE grrl gamers," and the few that you do encounter telling people to "LOL Stop shoting, I'm a girl," or "My DPS is low because I'm PMSing ^^" are the vocal minority that give us all a bad name.

We are confident in our skills and don't need to use gender as a crutch, we can get our own Epics, and we aren't just cannon fodder for your AK-74u.

So the next time you're online someone calls you a "girl" think about it.

Is it really THAT bad to play like a winner?

XD

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A WARNING FROM ME,NEVER UNDERESTIMATE A GIRL GAMER! XD.YES,THE TOP POST WAS WRITTEN BY A GIRL.DAMN FUNNY XD